“I wouldn’t trade the pain…

for the lessons that I learned..”

still don’t like that I had to go through all that pain to end up where I’m at, but I’m really liking where I’m at, and who I am, so at least the pain wasn’t for nothing.

I’ve learned a lot about myself in the past 4 years, most of all that I am so much stronger than I ever believed. I used to think that I was the one who was damaged, that the damage caused by my FOO made me “less than.”  I thought that how my marriage was, was what a relationship was supposed to be, and that what is was, was all I deserved.

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